Unapologetic Reviews

I read The Housewife by Natalie Barelli as the final book in my Trad Wife Reading Project, and it turned out to be something of an outlier. Most of the books in this project dealt directly with tradwife influencers. Yesteryear , Trad Wife: A Novel , The Trad Wife , and Everyone Is Lying to You all explored women constructing some version of traditional femininity for an online audience. Their homes, marriages, pregnancies, recipes, and carefully chosen dresses became part of a public performance. The Stepford Wives obviously predates social media, but it examines the darker fantasy beneath the same ideal. The Housewife is different. There are no influencers, no social media empire, and no ideological community built around traditional gender roles. Its protagonist simply enjoys being a housewife. Jodie loves cooking, cleaning, and maintaining an immaculate home. Cleaning genuinely calms her. She is meticulous about everything, from the arrangement of the house to the meals she prep...

As part of my Trad Wife Reading Project, I picked up Everyone Is Lying to You by Jo Piazza. This was the fifth book in the project, and it turned out to be quite different from the others. Rather than leaning into psychological horror or domestic suspense, this one is first and foremost a murder mystery set in the world of trad wife influencers. It uses that setting to explore power, control, religion, and the carefully curated lives people present online. The story follows two former college friends whose lives have taken completely different paths. Lizzie is a journalist whose career has been steadily declining, while Bex has become one of the internet's biggest trad wife influencers with six children and millions of followers. After years without speaking, Bex suddenly reaches out to Lizzie and offers her an exclusive interview. They arrange to meet at a convention for mom influencers, but before they ever get the chance, Bex's husband is found murdered. From there the nove...

I read The Trad Wife by Carrie Hughes as part of my Trad Wife Reading Project. This was the fourth book in the project, and it ended up being one of the stranger entries. It blends domestic thriller, cult fiction, and religious manipulation into a story that is less about the idealized trad wife lifestyle itself and more about the systems of control hiding behind it. Melissa is a single mother living in New York with her seven year old daughter, Willow. She works in social media and hosts a podcast, and she has become fascinated by Faith, a wildly successful trad wife influencer whose perfect family life is broadcast from a picturesque ranch. When Faith unexpectedly offers Melissa a job as her social media manager, the opportunity seems impossible to refuse. Housing is included, the pay is good, and it also gives Willow a chance to escape the relentless bullying she has been experiencing at school. The catch is that Faith and the entire community are Mormon. Melissa grew up in the chu...

I read Trad Wife: A Novel by Saratoga Schaefer as the third book in my Trad Wife Reading Project, and this was easily the darkest one so far. The book has been marketed as a modern Rosemary's Baby, and that comparison is very accurate. Instead of focusing on a woman forced into a horrific pregnancy against her will, this story follows a woman who desperately wants a baby, even if she has to make a deal with something she doesn't fully understand to get one.  The main character, Camille Deming, has built her entire identity around becoming the perfect trad wife influencer. She lives in a large country farmhouse with her husband, Graham, spends her days cooking, cleaning, homesteading, and carefully curating her online image. The only thing missing is a baby. In Camille's mind, motherhood isn't just something she wants personally. It's the final step towards becoming the successful influencer she dreams of being. When she discovers an old wishing well on her property...

I read Yesteryear by Caro Claire Burke for the 2026 PopSugar Reading Challenge, for prompt number 25, “A book that explores influencer culture”. This book is marketed all wrong. Interestingly, this is not the first book I have encountered recently that was sold almost entirely through trendy buzzwords. A romantasy that is not really a romantasy. A humorous fantasy that is barely funny. Now a novel advertised as being about a trad wife and time travel that is actually about something much more interesting. On the surface, Natalie seems to be exactly what social media celebrates. She is a successful trad wife influencer living on a ranch with her growing family, baking bread, raising children, and presenting the image of the perfect conservative Christian wife. When strange events suddenly disrupt her life, the story splits into two timelines. One follows her present, while the other gradually reveals the path that brought her to this point. The book spends far more time exploring Natali...

I read The Stepford Wives by Ira Levin as the first book in a small reading side quest I'm calling my "Trad Wives" project. I wanted to start with the book that shaped so much of the conversation around this topic, and there really isn't a better place to begin. Even though it was published in 1972, it feels surprisingly modern, and in some ways even more relevant today than it probably did when it first came out. The story follows Joanna Eberhart, a photographer from New York, who moves with her husband and children to the quiet suburban town of Stepford in search of a better life. Joanna is very much a modern woman for the early 1970s. She has a career, creative ambitions, and little interest in defining herself solely through marriage and housework. When she meets the local women, however, something immediately feels wrong. They seem almost entirely consumed by cleaning, cooking, and pleasing their husbands. Their personalities appear strangely flat, as though eve...